I was reminded recently that the role of women has changed radically in the last generation.
The 1950s, post war was a period characterised by women conforming to stark gender norms. In this era, very few women ventured into the workforce post-marriage, as their primary responsibilities centred around homemaking and child-rearing. The husband, without question, was the head of the household, managing mortgages, legal documents, and bank accounts. 1950s women had very little financial independence or career.
A modern dilemma
Fast forward to now, and the landscape has shifted dramatically. Women today (seeming) seamlessly straddle the roles of wage earner and caregiver. 21st-century women not only have careers once exclusive to men but also shoulder a large degree of responsibilities in the home. It made me think of my own life, going back to work full time after having a child.
It’s monumental progress. Women now appear in more boardrooms than ever before, mirroring careers traditionally reserved only for men. The shift towards financial independence has provided a safety net, liberating women from the vulnerability that defined the last generation.
The unseen struggle
Despite the transformation, a struggle persists, this dual identity women navigate, often going unrecognised. The societal expectation that women will be “allowed” have careers while continuing to take on the lion’s share of domestic responsibilities perpetuates stereotypes of the 1950s and hinders true equality.
Progress is still progress
I guess I’m not saying anything new here. When women take on the roles traditionally held by their fathers while continuing with the responsibilities of their mothers, struggles will continue. The impact on confidence and self-esteem while we try to “do it all” often unnoticed, highlights the need for continued dialogue and understanding. We need to realise this ourselves firstly, of course, and have the courage to ask the right questions at home and in the workplace without feeling like we have failed to achieve the impossible!
